Kiesha ♥

Its me again…Bianca has gone m.i.a on this blog recently but she’ll be back..I promise!! Anyway I’m done my first semester as a freshmen, GO ME!! So lately I’ve been telling people about the blog…and many people are encouraging which makes me really happy! My older brother and I have been texting a lot recently and he keeps sending me these random poems… phenomenal but random to say the least. I took a nap after work and woke up to this poem:

I love my brother.  I love this poem. I love what it represents. I’m glad he is embracing the movement I am pushing towards.

Stay Beautiful ◊

Kiesha ♥

Hello lovely people ! Today is the last day of the semester!!!!!! I think this semester was definitely eye opening not only for the school work (which isn’t really that hard, yet) but also to how different relationships can be on a campus. I feel like as quickly as these new friendships can begin they end just as fast! I was telling a lot of my friends that I have went through a looooot of guys this semster! lol it’s sad but true. I don’t dwell on things that don’t work out and I quickly move on. I would meet a guy, we would be vibing and take things slow but then a day or two later I would find out he had a girlfriend. Or more recently I would meet a guy, we would be talking, go out on a date and then find out he talks to a million girls because he’s just looking to hook up. 

College boys are N O T looking for relationships nor commitment. If you know the dynamics of a college campus you know that there are more girls then there are boys. Which means 9 times out of 10 you are sharing that special guy. Why would a guy settle down with 1 when there are at least 5 other girls trying to get at him? And this is not to say that there are not some reallllly sweet guys out there who are looking for relationships…but I have yet to meet them. I was telling my suite mate the other day that girls just want to be loved…it’s in our nature. That’s why women are so loyal, men on the other hand…not so much. 

So I have decided I want friends with benefits…without the sex. haha lets see how this will work out…I think I have somebody in mind

Kiesha ♥

Hey everybody, I hope everybody had a good holiday break. Now it’s time for finals and lots of papers But I had a wonderful break! I told my mother about the first time I got head. She was surprised to say the least. lol

It happened this summer with my last boyfriend. I’ve had offers since forever.  Many of the offers would come while having a make out session others were just out of the blue. One dude was so blatantly honest and sent me a random text saying “When can I eat your pussy??” I never replied but me and my girls had a laugh about THE THIRST!  Many of my friends thought I was crazy for passing up on the numerous opportunities for head (seriously, it was soooooo many offers haha) But for me it didn’t have to the special one…just someone I felt comfortable with. 

We had a friendship for over 5 years and we were only together for a month. (Infidelity, of course). I don’t regret my decision of sharing that special part of me for a moment (more like an hour haha  ) In that moment I don’t think I could have been anymore in love than I already was. I guess I’m starting to understanding when people say sex makes your emotions get attached. I had loved him for years and it was genuine love between us. But his past got in the way of our future and he slipped up. The love will always be there. I mean he gave me head to Common so i’ll always love him!!

My mother thinks because its oral sex that’s part of my virginity but I don’t put that on that high of a pedestal although it was an extremely intimate experience. What do you guys think? Is oral sex the same as sex sex? 

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Kiesha ♥

Hello beautiful people, it’s me again! I have to tell you guys about my date this weekend and how much fun it was!  Sooooo I was approached by a Bloomsburg University football player recently (lol wassup with all the athletes though?)  Anyway, I have a couple of close friends who know him and say he is a pretty good guy so I decided to give him a chance. We’ve been texting/tweeting for a minute now and he was coming home to visit and decided to take me out for a first date. Now I’m a VERY picky eater and I was surprised when he suggested that we go to one of my favorite restaurants down South Street. We never got to go we spent a half hour looking for parking! He’s really quick on his toes and suggested that we then go to my favorite pizza place. I was looooooving him!

He was really sweet and he complimented me and I could tell he was really genuine. There was only ONE problem: he’s not up to date with his current events. We’re driving past the Occupy Philly demonstration and he’s totally ignorant on any Occupy movements. That is a problem…I don’t need a guy to know EVERYTHING about the current global situations but really dude? Just as I can’t date a lazy man I can’t date an ignorant man as well. His  excuse is that he’s up in the mountains so he couldn’t have heard but I’m pretty sure he heard about Kim Kardashian’s divorce. I don’t know what that’s all about but hopefully he’ll get it together because he really is a gentleman and we need more of them.

I get to see him again this weekend for a second date and from there hopefully he’ll blow my mind away…because good looks and humor can only go but so far.

~Stay Beautiful~

Kiesha ♥

Bianca has a boyfriend and this is a new relationship. BLAH lol but i like them together.  

Me, on the other hand I’m  SUPER SINGLE!

At the moment I’m not really serious with anyone I’m talking to. On Temple’s campus I have yet to meet a guy who meets MY standards. For example: One of the basketball player’s was tying to purse me heavily and I entertained the notion because I was kinda bored lol . Anyway were talking and I’m asking about his GPA, about his job situation, and things that he is doing within his major. To be honest…he’s BASIC!! (although he really is a sweetheart lol) This man tells me he has about a 2.5 GPA, NEVER has had a job and he might do an internship over the summer…WTF??? You mean to tell me that you are attending an amazing university for FREE! and you’re not taking advantages of that! smh BASIC!!

My high school went on a couple of college tours and my friend’s tell me about one of  the tour guides who broke down his outlook on college. A handsome chocolate man who always dressed in suits to all his classes because college is his JOB and you dress for the job you want! Also on his dating life, when females would approach him..he would ask their GPA. So if the girl had a 2.4 GPA, she got a 2.4 DATE! (Mc Donald’s anyone? lmfao) Your GPA reflects how serious you are about your education. Even without a good GPA if you are making power moves on campus..I can respect that. I’m just not seeing that! I guess as a freshman who is doing the damn thing, I need somebody who has as much drive and ambition as I do. I REFUSE to date a lazy man! 

As far as on campus and in Philly right now…I’m not really feeling the options. But I do have someone special He’s away at school right now (thank GOD just for the semester) We’re not together nor are we really talking right now but he knows he has a special place in my heart .

But since he’s not my boyfriend I’m free to date! I have a date with a Bloomsburg cutie this weekend and then a brunch on Sunday with a guy I’ve known for years. Hopefully they know the dating rules! Until next time, stay beautiful.